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Spring Clean Up

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Follow your heart, have good intentions, and don't mislead others.  But we must be careful and listen to our sixth sense, watch what they do not what they say. Don't be surprised if suddenly the person you trusted manifests itself in an entirely different beast. In my case, the facts got rid of all of the guesswork. High hopes and low expectations lead to fewer disappointments. It takes courage to trust and even more courage to love one more time.  However, sometimes we can't find common ground even if we still trust and love the person, but when the trust is gone is time to bite the bullet and burn that bridge forever.  Unless you are looking for unnecessary drama, endless problems, emotional pain, and suffering, that bridge is the invitation.  Say goodbye, wish them the best of luck, but that is as far as I would go.  Save your respect for real friends and honest enemies and forget the false friends .

Blessing or Curse

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Blessing or Curse  Whatever the case may be I was blessed with that same curse. “I was drawn to horses as if they were magnets. It was in my blood. I must have inherited from my grandfather a genetic proclivity toward the equine species.  Perhaps there's a quirk in the DNA that makes horse people different from everyone else, that instantly divides humanity into those who love horses and the others,  who simply don't know.”  Allan J. Hamilton   Zen Mind, Zen Horse: The Science and Spirituality of Working with Horses